I have become thicker then I ever were. In high school, I had to cute face but body wasn’t what the average boys wanted to look at. I’m 33 now, only given birth to one child. He’s 12 now! I have to motivate myself even when I don’t have the energy, but if your kid comes & says he wants to change his appearance because he doesn’t like it! I have to be the example! I can’t loose to stuff because I WOULD LOOK FOR MY ASS & hips to explains! No surgery!